Dating after breast cancer
It's Breast Cancer Awareness Month, and I would be remiss if I did not write about one of the most challenging issues in my life to date.
My struggle with breast cancer is not one I keep secret.
When I found out during a routine doctor’s appointment that I had a lump in my left breast, my plans for having a family evaporated.
Now if only I could tell the guys I’m trying to date that’s what happened, and that’s what I’m really thinking about when they’re telling me about balancing work and life and what kind of music they like over a glass of wine. Especially one that puts a timeline on your fertility on top of everything else.
Common forms of cancer in the United States include breast cancer, lung cancer, prostate cancer, bladder cancer, colon cancer, skin cancer and more.
Chemotherapy and other treatments can affect sexual function by decreasing sexual desire, causing vaginal dryness or changing your sexual response.
If you want to date but feel reluctant to start, it could also be due to low energy, fatigue, fear of rejection or not wanting to give up control.
If you isolated yourself during treatment, you might have difficulty imagining yourself meeting new people and having fun.
There are many practical things you can do to address sex and intimacy concerns, but you may still worry about dating.
A few tips: For many women, the greatest worry is how a date or partner will react to hearing about your experience with breast cancer and seeing any physical changes caused by treatment.